The *Struggle* of Writing with Authenticity

The *Struggle* of Writing with Authenticity

Yes, it’s the truth that I am who I am today because of the path of my life and what I went through, but I think the value of human experience and the gift of being able to articulate my experience and the lessons I learned are to share them with humanity so that other people don’t have to go through the same thing. This is how we evolve human consciousness. This is how we help each other; when we have the courage to share our experiences and our feelings as honestly as possible. When we share from a place where we just can’t help from writing the words, making the video, or saying the thing we want to say. When we share because our heart still feels for that younger version of ourselves that is in the exact same place as we were. Because we see ourselves in another. And that kind of sharing is brave. Sometimes what you say will be messy. Sometimes it will cause others to get angry. Sometimes it melts hearts. Almost all change occurs through re-organization and a period of chaos and disharmony. I had to get comfortable in my own journey with being not only someone who would inspire good feelings, hope, love, and empowerment for people, but also that what I have to say is gonna cause some discomfort and make people upset, not like me as much. It sounds simple really, but for someone like me who spent my whole life people pleasing, it was very very hard to get used to. I constantly *struggle* with my writing and my...
Falling Apart is not a sign that everything is “falling apart”

Falling Apart is not a sign that everything is “falling apart”

I was conversing with a future version of myself today. I asked a deep question I seek answers to. She said: fully love and accept yourself and you will see. I felt my heart drop and heard myself say “But when I fully love and accept myself, everything in my life falls apart.” And my future self just smiled at me with love and said “yes it will. And what is on the other side of that is glorious.” It was right there that I had an Ah ha moment. “Holy Shit. This is what I’ve been telling everyone else. And now I see it being reflected back within myself. How did I not see this before?” Most recently I’ve been working with a few of my clients on their relationship challenges specifically around feeling insecure and jealous around other women and or noticing that the men they are just not matching their energy the way they want. I hear all kinds of things, but basically what it boils down to is some realization that they are unhappy because they don’t have time for, or just don’t do the things that naturally fill them up and make them happy. When I ask why they stop doing the things that fill them up, they say “well when I do that our relationship falls apart.” To which my response is “I see, so why are you trying to hold something together that falls apart when you be more you? If when you be more you, something starts to dissolve, don’t waste your precious life force energy trying to control it together....